DO kiss and tell

It's integral to your life satisfaction that you gossip about sex with your girls.

I was 14 hurriedly scaling the staircase of my cousins house. We locked ourselves in her bedroom and for further privacy–and because she didn’t have a lock on her door–hid under the sheets. I told her about the startling new discovery I had made: the clit.

That was one moment in a plethora of quiet and hurried declarations. The first time I learned what …